18th Annual Rimay Monlam

With Tulku Sherdor

June 8 - 11, 2025

Date and Time Details: Sunday, June 8 (check in 2-4 PM; program starts 4 PM) until Wednesday, June 11 (checkout 1 PM)

Location: Dharmakaya Center for Wellbeing

Address: 191 Cragsmoor Road, Cragsmoor, NY, USA

Contact: retreats@dharmakayacenter.org
845.640.4593

Check-in Time : 2 pm – 4 pm

Per Person Price : Prices include 3 meals per day and use of all campus facilities.

  • Commuter – $315
  • Private Room (shared bath): Single – $645
  • Private Room (shared bath): Couple – $562.50
  • Junior Suite (private bath): Single – $855
  • Junior Suite (private bath): Couple – $705

Dual Program: Pair this Rimay Monlam with the Sadhana Practice Retreat led by Tulku Sherdor, June 8-11, and save 10% off your accommodations for both. REGISTER HERE

To extend your stay on Personal Retreat: Simply add days before or after the program during step 2 when making your reservation.

Cancellation Policy : Program and accommodations fees are refundable up to two weeks prior to the program (less a $50 processing fee). See our policy to learn more.

  • Commuter – $315.00
  • Private Room: Single – $645.00
  • Private Room: Couple – $1,125.00
  • Junior Suite: Single – $855.00
  • Junior Suite: Couple – $1,410.00

A Tibetan Buddhist Non-sectarian Convocation to Promote Peace, Harmony and Health Throughout the World

RETREAT BY INVITED PRESENTER

Monlam means a way to give voice to and realize our highest aspirations. It is a collective and personal spiritual mission statement. We will gather over these four days to harness, focus, and direct the natural power of our own minds, and invoke the power of the reality of interdependence through prayers and recitations. The positive energy, clarity, and love generated through this gathering has inspired attendees year after year, and they have taken this energy back into their lives and activities after the program concludes. This year will will conclude with a Saga Dawa Celebration. Please join us. You will leave this gathering inspired, energized, and activated.

“This weekend gave me a new zest for both the outdoors and the benefits of a retreat in a scenic and magical landscape.”

DUAL PROGRAM: Pair with Sadhana Practice: Expanding Our Compassion for All Beings, led by Tulku Sherdor, June 4-8, and save 10% off your room stay. REGISTER HERE

PROGRAM DESCRIPTION

A monlam chenmo is not just a ceremonial recitation of prayers. It covers the entire Buddhist path of training over the course of each day. The daily program begins with renewal of the refuge and bodhicitta commitments, progresses through ever more sublime meditation rituals, and concludes with a series of aspiration and dedication prayers. These are the three excellences, in the beginning, the middle, and the end.

All of the recitations are performed as don gom, with undistracted attention to both the words and their meaning at all times. Thus, recitation and meditation are synonymous, and mutually reinforcing. Concentrating on the words while seated in meditation posture, and visualizing clearly or reflecting upon what the words describe, is calm abiding, śamatha. The insights to which the words direct you, blossoming within your own mind, are vipaśyanā. Don gom therefore is an instance of the unity of śamatha and vipaśyanā, the two main components of all Buddhist meditation systems.

A monlam chenmo program encompasses all three major vehicles of Buddhist practice, and the trainings in view, meditation, and conduct of both sūtra and tantra. It is designed to expedite and enhance the two accumulations of relative merit and ultimate wisdom. The practice of monlam thus is not only don gom; it is also mos gom. Mos gom means that we are not just aspiring to, but actually modeling, the state of liberation, of universal enlightenment, consistent with the view and approach of Mantrayāna.

That said, whether, as Buddhists, we conceive that we are praying to enlightened beings who are imagined to be out there somewhere, or whether we see our prayers as simply a skillful means to connect with the Buddha Nature that is the ground and ultimate state of our own being, really makes no difference. Either view, being conceptual, is simply provisional, and indicative. Our efforts will bear fruit, no matter which concept fits our minds better. Thus, everyone can participate in a monlam at his or her own level, with full benefit.

 

The term ‘prayer’ hardly captures the sense of any of the Tibetan terms it is employed to translate. In particular, the term monlam denotes a way, an approach, to formulating and realizing our highest aspirations. It is an articulation of purpose: a mission statement. Thus, monlam lacks any connotation of helplessness which the notion of prayer, in English, might carry. It also belies the notion of prayer as mere wishful thinking. Rather, for practicing Buddhists, a monlam harnesses and directs the natural power of our own minds, and invokes the power of the reality of interdependence, to yield actual results or benefits from our effort, dedication, and purpose. This dynamic is conveyed by the den tsig, or declaration of truth, with which an aspiration prayer typically concludes.

Thus, when we pray, “may that to which we have aspired come to pass,” we assemble the causal factors, and articulate the reasons why the desired outcome should transpire, rather than ask for a result that magically circumvents the conventional truth of interdependence. Through our aspiration prayers, all necessary and supporting factors of relative and ultimate truth are invoked, such that, through the reality of interdependence, the effect to which we aspire is brought that much closer to becoming true.

Prayer, in other words, is about bridging the gap from ‘aspiring’ to ‘transpiring.’ In the Buddhist view, everything good that we do, and can accomplish, begins as an aspiration. A monlam both crystallizes our intentions, and helps us to realize them; it helps us resolve our goals, and leads us toward them. We recite a monlam to chart the course of our own spiritual practice and progress.

Aspirations channel our life force, enabling us to cross the gap, or leap over the divide, between where we find ourselves in one moment, and strive to be in another. It is, once again, through powerful aspirations to serve the needs of living beings, fueled by the power of mental and physical energies gathered through arduous practice, focused prayer, and virtuous acts, that evolved beings—bodhisattvas—incarnate to show us the way forward, and to preserve and uphold the lineages and teachings of Buddhadharma.

Saga Dawa Celebration: The final day of this year’s Rime Monlam will be on the auspicious day of Saga Dawa, the celebration of the birth, enlightenment, and parinirvana of Shakyamuni Buddha.  We will offer specific prayers for that day and we will offer a concluding tsok (feast) practice.

EVENT HIGHLIGHTS

  • Intimate setting with personal access to the teacher
  • Interactive sessions with question and answer periods
  • Guided meditations
  • Aspirations for the welfare of all sentient beings
  • Opportunity to pair with Sadhana Practice: Expanding Our Compassion for All Beings and receive discounted accommodations fees
  • Delicious all-vegetarian meals with locally sourced ingredients
  • Option to extend stay on Personal Retreat
  • Extensive library of dharma books
  • Expansive wooded grounds with beautiful paths, flora and fauna

OPEN TO ALL

The program is appropriate for all levels of practitioner. It is not physically rigorous, but it does consist of sitting and reciting during each session.

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION

There are no prerequisites. We will provide the material needed for the program. However, if people wish to study or review the material before hand or purchase the book for themselves they may. The Monlam is primarily from  A Book of Common Tibetan Buddhist Prayers, which can be found at https://shop.blazingwisdom.org/index.php/books/a-book-of-common-tibetan-buddhist-prayers-3rd

SCHEDULE

(subject to change)

Sunday, June 8

2:00 PM Check in begins
4:00-6:00 PM Welcome and Introduction
Program Begins
6:00-7:00 PM Dinner

Monday, June 9-Tuesday, June 10

8:00-9:00 AM Breakfast
8:45-11:30 AM Program
12:00-1:30 PM Lunch
1:45-5:30 PM Program
6:00-7:00 PM Dinner
7:00 PM Informal gathering around the firepit

Wednesday, June 11

8:00-9:00 AM Breakfast
8:45-11:30 AM Saga Dawa Celebration
12:00-1:00 PM Lunch
1:00 PM Checkout and Departure

 

About the Teacher

Tulku Sherdor

Tulku Sherdor has been the Executive Director of the Blazing Wisdom Institute since 2004. Born in Montreal, Canada in 1961, he practiced Buddhist Insight meditation as a teenager and met his principal teacher, Tulku Urgyen Rinpoche, in Nepal in 1981.  He was fortunate to study with many other pre-eminent Tibetan Buddhist masters of the 20th […]

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